Mark and Joan hit it off, especially on their one-on-one date. So Mark and viewers alike were shocked when Joan pulled him aside and explained her need to eliminate him. While Joan appreciated how Mark’s time at the mansion had helped him heal from losing his wife, she felt she was missing from his story. Joan and Mark were at different places in the mourning process, and she didn’t think he was ready for a serious relationship. After recovering from his stunning rejection, Mark proved Joan wrong by finding true love all on his own.
Mark Is Being Low-Key About His Relationship
His Subtlety Is A Sign Of His Contentment

Mark and Barbara’s low-key attitude towards publicizing their relationship proves how comfortable they are with their status. They don’t need to make bold proclamations about their love or define their relationship to their followers. This allows Mark and Barbara to build their connection without any distractions, which is a promising sign for their future. They are clearly happy together and aren’t letting anybody else’s opinions get in the way.
Mark Doesn't Seem Like The Type Of Guy To Date Someone Unless He's Serious About Them
He’s Ready To Commit To Barbara
Mark was married to his late wife, the mother of his five children, for 18 years before her 2018 death. He was vulnerable on The Golden Bachelorette season 1 about how much he cherished and missed her. Mark was ready to find love again, but he didn’t take the matter lightly. After the heartbreak of losing his beloved wife, it's doubtful Mark would enter a new relationship casually.
These are signs that even though they're keeping their romance low-key.
Mark Is Finally Ready For A Relationship After The Death Of His Wife
Joan & The Mansion Men Helped Him Move On

Mark’s time on The Golden Bachelorette was pivotal to his healing process, and it may be what opened the door to his relationship with Barbara. He missed his opportunity with Joan and didn’t want to let any more chances pass him by. Mark and Barbara seem content in their relationship, and the fact that they found each other without the help of a TV show gives them an even better chance at success. He may have left the mansion alone, but now that he’s found love, Mark and Barbara are in it for the long haul.