The Bachelor: Signs Kelsey Anderson's Ego's Surging (She's Changed Since Joey Graziadei's Dancing With The Stars Stint)

The Bachelor alum Kelsey Anderson seemed to change dramatically after her fiancé Joey Graziadei's Dancing With The Stars stint, and maybe defending him all the time is making her too bold and brazen. Joey won the show after giving some amazing performances. While Joey danced his heart out, and rightfully won, his time on the show was plagued with controversy. Kelsey was taunted by fans who wondered if she was jealous of his stunning dance partner, Jenna Johnson, who's married to DWTS icon, Valentin Chmerkovskiy

Kelsey is such a beautiful woman - she has a very natural look. She doesn't seem to rely on hair dye or plastic surgery to look good. There's something refreshing about how unspoiled her beauty is. Kelsey doesn't need to feel inferior to any other woman. Joey chose her because he fell in love with her. However, few could argue that Joey has a gorgeous dance partner. When Kelsey was challenged about Joey getting too close to Jenna, she got snarky, although she was never rude. When she went on the defensive, it seemed to trigger a little bit of ego.

Kelsey Anderson's Going Into Supermodel Mode

Strike The Pose

Kelsey strutted her stuff on a Sherri Hill catwalk, wearing a pretty blue dress with a fitted bodice. She looked fabulous, but maybe she was trying to show the world that she's the equal of any Dancing With The Stars woman. Kelsey's fledgling modeling career is exciting, and she appeared to do a great job on the runway. Nonetheless, modeling is quite an ego-driven industry.

The more consumed someone is with their own face and body, the less they think about other things. Hopefully, Kelsey felt good about herself while participating in the show - she said it was one of the

"highlights"

of a truly dreamy September. However, the sweet, down-to-earth quality that Joey fell in love with is something that she should hang onto. Going totally "Hollywood" may not be the right choice for "nice guy" Mark Anderson's daughter.

Kelsey's So Tired Of All This Jealousy Chatter

She Really Set The Record Straight

Kelsey looked frustrated and a bit angry when she took to TikTok to debunk gossip that she was jealous of DWTS' Jenna. In the clip, Kelsey responded to fans who think she should be jealous because another woman is touching her man. In a very direct manner, she told them that Jenna gets close to Joey because it's "her job" to dance with him. Kelsey wasn't abrasive, but she was obviously sick of getting this kind of shade. Of course, she's right. It's Jenna's job, and there's nothing wrong with her touching Joey in that context.

So, in no uncertain terms, Kelsey shared her real feelings about the situation. Maybe she could have been a little more lighthearted. The look in her eyes says it all - she's irritated by all of this. If she does secretly feel jealous, hearing this kind of gossip may trigger her. If she doesn't feel jealous, it may plant seeds of doubt.

There's nothing wrong with having enough confidence to speak the truth. Some people don't have the courage. It's more her body language during the clip that's slightly concerning. She looks mad sometimes, as though the fans are getting to her. It's probably better to say nothing, rather than letting one's impatience show. However, Kelsey's a human being, and letting a little ego seep out during a chat over a serious topic isn't such a bad thing.

Nonetheless, laughing out loud at the rumors may be too much. It's like she's laughing at her fans.

The Bachelor season 28 alum Kelsey is going to change in the public eye - almost everyone does. Joey's changing too - he's trying new things and really stretching himself. He's moving out of his comfort zone with fantastic results.

Kelsey is always there for him, but some of the stuff he does opens her up to criticism. People try to make her feel bad. For this reason, she has got to be tough. She is a strong woman, but letting her ego take over isn't the right strategy. It's better to do nothing at all - just let them talk and feel how they want to feel.

Kelsey Might Miss Fame If Fans Stop Caring

But Fame Has A Downside

If people stop talking about her, Kelsey might not like it. Fame is addictive and a lot of celebs have massive egos. They feed on attention and start to believe their own hype. If Kelsey avoids commenting on the rumors, and focuses on feeling good herself, she'll probably be happier. There will always be critics. - how The Bachelor star feels about negative feedback is what matters.