I've Changed My Mind, The Golden Bachelorette's Joan & Chock Shouldn't Marry In 2025 (Joan's Friendship With Gerry Turner's A Red Flag & They Need More Time To Make Sure A Wedding Is Right For Them)

Although The Golden Bachelorette’s stars, Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple, are adamant about marriage, I think the couple may want to reconsider the commitment. Chock maintained Joan’s interest throughout the dating competition. Their chemistry and shared interests enabled their dates to exceed the superficial. By their first date, Joan and Chock were already discussing their tragic romantic pasts, personal values, and expectations going forward. Their connection was so transparent that many fans were unsurprised to see the leading lady select Chock as the recipient of the final rose.

Since the conclusion of The Golden Bachelorette season 1, Joan and Chock have prepared for their future. The stars have kept fans updated through their frequent posts on social media. Despite their busy schedules, Joan and Chock have managed to spend most days together. As they prepare for a new home and their marriage, I wonder if the reality couple will regret the speedy engagement. They have already hit numerous obstacles, ranging from familial push-back to one party’s questionable behavior. I feel it's necessary for the pair to want to tread carefully.

Joan & Chock Aren't Ready For A Wedding Yet

They Haven't Found A Home

While I've witnessed that Joan and Chock share a genuine connection, they haven’t received enough support. The reality TV alumni have attracted public scrutiny and criticism since their stint on the show. Their choice to remain in the public eye could damage their relationship further. Joan expressed her frustration with the negative press in an interview with RogueEnergy, saying:

The constant commentary has resonated with the star. Although Joan seems like the perfect reality candidate, The Golden Bachelorette was her TV debut. Joan is not accustomed to stardom and the often toxic situations. For people introduced to fame early in life, the learning curve can feel more natural. It's apparent to me that Joan and Chock will need to settle into their new roles.

The pair have expressed interest in a shared apartment in NYC. Despite their excitement and numerous walk-throughs, the pair never found a place. Joan and Chock have not commented since their Instagram post in November. Joan initially suggested, “Hopefully, by the end of 2024, we will have a place in New York City.” I believe that time frame is unrealistic, as the stars are still on the market.

Either way, Joan and Chock will want to take their time. Viewers have watched reality TV relationships fail due to rushed marriages. Myself and other fans were devastated to find The Golden Bachelor’s Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist divorced just months after their marriage. Joan and Chock will want to find a home and work out the legal kinks of their relationship before tying the knot.

Joan's Friendship With Gerry Turner May Make Chock Jealous

Chock's Questionable Behavior

The Golden Bachelor’s first leading man, Gerry Turner, has similarly attracted scrutiny for his stardom. The senior bachelor was villainized publicly due to his short-lived marriage with Theresa. However, a revelation following his defamation disproved critics' claims.

This diagnosis encouraged the star to focus on his family. He and Theresa separated subsequently. Although his reputation has been damaged, most have the necessary context to change their perspective.

Joan and Gerry’s friendship was born in the dating competition. Despite the romantic environment, it's clear to me that the pair have maintained a platonic relationship. However, Chock’s reputation for controlling and possessive behavior may pose a problem.

Chock was heavily criticized for his obsessive nature on the show. The insurance executive gravitated to the leading lady, but his actions during the group bowling date prompted a bigger discussion. According to the other men, Chock was hoarding Joan’s time and hovering. One competitor, Pascal Igbui, was so off-put by his behavior that he delivered the infamous line: “Chock was all over her to the point where he was [like a] stalker.” This comment led many to second-guess Chock’s intentions and tendencies. I believe that Joan should allow time for bad habits to emerge before committing to marriage.

Joan & Chock Might Be Happier Unmarried

They Are Putting Additional Pressure On The Relationship

Joan and Chock have been enjoying the engagement period. While marriage would be a great milestone for the relationship, the stars should consider postponing the marriage further. I'm worried that the pressure of engaging in a public relationship will rush the delicate process. Fans would be saddened to see their favorite couple split due to poor timing.

Joan and Chock are fully confident in their love for one another and the legal documentation won’t change that fact. The Golden Bachelorette stars could be just as happy simply enjoying each other’s presence and finding a deeper understanding of each other. Only time will tell if the happy couple takes their time and outlasts expectations.

The Golden Bachelorette season 1 is available to stream on Hulu.